做一个好人的压力

    在执中学长获得这届BBKing之后今日再次重温奇葩说这一期,仍旧十分感慨。这一期的话题关于在当面对可以通过牺牲一人来拯救全人类的时候,应该派有后之人还是无后之人?

    执中学长选择了一个独特角度来思考:伟大之后随之而来的阴影。人类之子和拥有的是无上的特权,也有无尽的压力。伟人之妻也是如此。这种伟大所带来的负面影响让人深思。少爷的发言赢得了48票,历史最高拉票数。

    在点评的时候,晓松老师认为这种理论太邪恶了,辩论不应该突破人类底线。人类绝不能丧失献身精神...

歌曲名:Mercy
歌手:Duffy
专辑:Rockferry Deluxe Edition

Mercy


Duffy


Yeah  yeah yeah
Yeah  yeah  yeah
Yeah  yeah  yeah
Yeah  yeah  yeah
I love you
But I gotta stay true
My moral's got me on my knees
I'm begging please
Stop playing games
I don't know what this is
But you got me good
Just like you knew you would
I don't know what you do
But you do it well
I'm under your spell
You got me begging you for mercy
Why won't you release me
You got me begging you for mercy
Why won't you release me
I said you better release me
Now you think that I
Will be some thing on the side
But you got to understand
That I need a man
Who can take my hand, yes I do
I don't know what this is
But you got me good
Just like you knew you would
I don't know what you do
But you do it well
I'm under your spell
You got me begging you for mercy
Why won't you release me
You got me begging you for mercy
Why won't you release me
I said you better release me
I'm begging you for mercy
Just why won't you release me
I'm begging you for mercy
You got me begging
You got me begging
You got me begging
Mercy
Why won't you release me
I'm begging you for mercy
Why wont you release me
You got me begging you for mercy
I'm begging you for mercy
I'm begging you for mercy
I'm begging you for mercy
I'm begging you for mercy
Why won't you release me
Bring it on
You got me begging
Begging you for mercy
You got me begging
Down on my knees
You got me begging
Begging you for mercy
You got me begging

种族并不代表荣誉。

我曾见过一些兽人,他们像最高贵的骑士那样可敬;

我还见过某些人类,他们像最残忍的亡灵天灾那样邪恶。


提里奥·弗丁


Almost lover


A fine Frenzy


Your fingertips across my skin 你的指尖轻滑过我的肌肤

The palm trees swaying in the wind 棕榈树在风中翩翩摇摆

Images 这一幕

You sang me Spanish lullabies 你为我吟唱那西班牙摇篮曲

The sweetest sadness in your eyes 你的眼中映出甜蜜的忧伤

Clever trick 真是高明的手段

I never want to see you unhappy 我不愿看到你的哀伤

I thought you want the same for me 我以为你也一样

Goodbye my almost lover 再见了,我无缘的爱人

Goodbye my hopeless dream 再见了,我无望的梦想

I'm trying not to think about you 我尽力不再想你

Can't you just let me be? 请放过我让我独自离去

So long my luckless romance 再见了我不幸的爱

My back is turned on you 我将转身离去

Should've known you'd bring me heartache 早该知道你只能带给我无尽的心伤

Almost lovers always do 无缘的爱人总是如此

We walked along a crowded street 我们穿行在拥挤的街道

You took my hand and danced with me 你拉住我的手与我共舞

images 这一幕

And when you left you kissed my lips 当你离开时,你吻着我的唇

You told me you'd never never forget these images 说着你永不忘记这一幕

No 不

Well I'd never wanna see you unhappy 我永远不愿看见你不快乐的样子

I thought you'd want the same for me 我以为你也一样

Goodbye my almost lover 再见了,我无缘的爱人

Goodbye my hopeless dream 再见了,我无望的梦想

I'm trying not to think about you 我尽力不再想你

Can't you just let me be? 请放过我让我独自离去

So long my luckless romance 再见了我不幸的爱

My back is turned on you 我将转身离去

Should've known you'd bring me heartache 早该知道你只能带给我无尽的心伤

Almost lovers always do 无缘的爱人总是如此

I cannot go to the ocean 我再也无法回到昔日的海边

I cannot drive in the streets at night 我再也无法行驶在午夜的街道

I cannot wake up in the morning 我再也无法在清晨醒来

Without you on my mind 若我的脑海中没有浮现你的面孔

So you're gone and I'm haunted 你已离去我却还被回忆缠绕

And I bet you are just fine 可我估计你现在过的十分自在

Did i make it that easy to walk right in and out of my life 是我促使你能够如此轻易地在我生命中徘徊么

Goodbye my almost lover 再见了,我无缘的爱人

Goodbye my hopeless dream 再见了,我无望的梦想

I'm trying not to think about you 我尽力不再想你

Can't you just let me be? 请放过我让我独自离去

So long my luckless romance 再见了我不幸的爱

My back is turned on you 我将转身离去

Should've known you'd bring me heartache 早该知道你只能带给我无尽的心伤

Almost lovers always do 无缘的爱人总是如此


Death's just death, nobody understands it.

姐姐的守护者 My sister's keeper 生活还在继续

Anna:生活还在继续


我的姐姐在那晚过世了。我也很希望说她突然奇迹般的康复,但她却没有。她就那样停止了呼吸。我也希望我能告诉你说因为凯特的过世有什么好事儿发生了,能让我们一家好好生活下去。或者说她的生命有什么特别的意义,然后有个公园啦马路什么的以她的名字命名,或者高级法院为她修正了一条法案啥的。但什么都没有发生。她回到了天堂,化作一小块的天蓝。而我们的生活还在继续。

现在我们的生活都不一样了。这些年发生了很大的变化。妈妈回去工作了,重新开张经营,有了很好的收益。爸爸提前领了退休金,把时间精力都用在教育失足少年上头。杰西是我们当中发展最好的。凯特过世后,他转变了自己的生活方式,...

诗经 王风 黍离

知我者 谓我心忧,

不知我者 谓我何求。


黍离


  彼黍离离,彼稷之苗。行迈靡靡,中心摇摇。知我者谓我心忧,不知我者谓我何求。悠悠苍天,此何人哉!

  彼黍离离,彼稷之穗。行迈靡靡,中心如醉。知我者谓我心忧,不知我者谓我何求。悠悠苍天,此何人哉!

  彼黍离离,彼稷之实。行迈靡靡,中心如噎。知我者谓我心忧,不知我者谓我何求。悠悠苍天,此何人哉!

Ghost Of A Chance


Ron Sexsmith


Exit Strategy Of The Soul
With the graceful and grotesque the morning rings
Hear the garbage truck roll by
Hear the birds begin to sing
Their song of love and praise
And may their happy sound
Be strong enough to raise
Our spirits off the ground
Or love don't stand a ghost of a chance
I'm on the trail of a storm and everywhere I look
Appear the ones that life has torn
Like pages from a book
Left to soldier on
No shoulder for to lean I'd be lost without a song
But if your love wasn't there for me
I just wouldn't stand a ghost of a chance
From where I sit
There's too many eyes crying tears
Too many lives living in fear
Wondering where their sweet dreams have all gone
Too many hands stirring the pot In a land of haves and have-nots All wondering why it's all gone wrong
Now as the ballet and burlesque commence to play
Give to me the strength to act
And not look the other way
For there's a war outside
Can't take it lying down
Got to look it in the eye
We've got to stand our ground
Or love don't stand a ghost of a chance
Love don't stand a ghost of a chance

Kiss from a rose ——Seal
玫瑰之吻

There used to be a graying tower alone on the sea
曾有一幢灰濛濛的高塔兀立在海边 
You, became the light on the dark side of me
你,变成了我黑暗面的光 
Love remains, a drug that's the high and not the pill
爱依然在,但它并非治病的药
But did you know that when it snows  
但你可知道在下雪时 
My eyes become large
我的双眼睁大 
And the light that you shine can't be seen?
你所放射出的光芒却看不见 

Baby, I compare you to a kiss from a rose on the gray
宝贝,我将你比喻为幽黯里的玫瑰之吻
Ooh, the more I get of you, the stranger it feels yeah  
噢,越了解你越感到陌生
Now that your rose is in bloom  
如今,你的玫瑰正盛开著
A light hits the gloom on the gray  
像一道光打破了灰暗中的朦胧 

There is so much a man can tell you
人们可以告诉你许多事 
So much he can say
太多事可说 
You remain my power, my pleasure, my pain
你保存著我的力量,我的欢乐和苦痛
Baby, To me
宝贝,对我而言 
You're like a growing addiction that I can't deny
我不能否认你像个逐渐升高的媚惑 
Won't you tell me, is that healthy, baby?
宝贝,你告诉我,这样正常吗? 
But did you know that when it snows
但你可知道在下雪时 
My eyes become large
我的双眼睁大
And the light that you shine can't be seen? 
你所放射出的光芒却看不见 

I've been kissed by a rose on the gray
我曾被幽黯里的玫瑰之吻亲吻过 
I've been kissed by a rose on the gray
我曾被幽黯里的玫瑰之吻亲吻过 
And if I should fall, will it all go away
如果我坠落,这一切将不复存在?

Yes, I compare you a kiss from a rose... 
没错,我将你比喻为幽黯里的玫瑰之吻

【转载】渡边淳一:我们丧失了某种才能,钝感力

       在各行各业中取得成功的人们,当然拥有才能,但在他们的才能背后,一定隐藏着有益的钝感力。钝感就是一种才能,一种能让人们的才华开花结果、发扬光大的力量。一般来说,提起“迟钝”这个词,人们头脑中联想到的都不是好事。


我们丧失了某种才能


  在各行各业中取得成功的人们,当然拥有才能,但在他们的才能背后,一定隐藏着有益的钝感力。

  钝感就是一种才能,一种能让人们的才华开花结果、发扬光大的力量。一般来说,提起“迟钝”这个词,人们头脑中联想到的都不是好事。

  实际上,“那个人好迟...

【转载】14个迹象表明:你的完美主义,失控了

如果你曾为得了一个“良好”或是止步于第二名而哭泣,那么很有可能你是一个完美主义者。

作为一种文化,我们都倾向于奖励完美主义者,为其始终坚持设定高标准并不懈的迫使自己去达到这些标准的精神。

完美主义者往往都是成功人士 -- 但是他们为成功所付出的代价是长期的痛苦和失望。

“想要伸手摘星,完美主义者或许最终只能两手空空”心理学家大卫·伯恩斯1980年发表在《现代心理学》上的一篇文章中告诫读者“‘完美主义者’尤其会陷入人际关系困境和情感障碍”。

完美主义并不是非要达到“黑天鹅”一般的程度才会肆虐你的生活和健康。即使是轻微的完美主义者(那些可能从来不认为自己是完美主义者的人群...

【转载】朋友圈里发什么合适? ——知乎用户 蔡小乐

他说,要不加个微信吧。


我诚惶诚恐的说,好。


扫一下?他掏出了手机。我刚要答应,忽然想起的朋友圈里昨天晚上发的我好寂寞孤独冷前天拍的一堆食物照片大前天的傻逼自拍。
我手机要没电了,要不你把微信号告诉我好不好。我撒了这个奇怪的谎。

等他离开的下一秒,我马上掏出手机,打开微信朋友圈,开始删删删!

好了,这下都干净了。我深呼吸了一口气,发送了好友请求。他很快就同意了。他的头像是一个小小的卡通人物,我捧着手机,有一种强烈的不真实感。他的朋友圈里很简单,一两张风景的照片,似乎是他去旅游的时候拍的。没有文字,也没有地点。

加他一个月了,他很少和我说话,偶尔会问几句近况,然后,就是死一样的沉默。每当微信的提示音...

【转载】没有朋友的朋友圈 ——倪一宁

我常觉得,微信朋友圈是近年来最伟大的社交发明。人人网既庞大又臃肿,你大力扑腾起的浪花,很快就被淹没在跨越太平洋的代购里。微博离现实太远,又顾及转发量,说什么都得字斟句酌,情绪攥在手里,像受潮的一团盐巴。而且这些账号吧,都太公开了,太透明了,谁和谁互动频繁,谁和谁成了好友,都一目了然,就像韦小宝同时被康熙帝和天地会关注了一样,讲什么都施展不开手脚。

朋友圈的奇妙之处就在于,你需要从蛛丝马迹的互动中,去猜想、挖掘、定义两个人间的关系。每次新增一个联系人,迅速地浏览一遍对方的朋友圈后,总能发出“原来他们俩也认识”的感慨,同时也得出“原来他还有这一面”的结论。是谁发明了“圈”这个精妙的说法,它封闭又...

【转载】太听话的姑娘不会太牛掰 ——李筱懿 摘自《灵魂有香气的女子》

大概从我上小学开始,就被爸爸反复叮嘱:你心脏不好,心跳有二级以上杂音,不要参加过于剧烈的运动,不要到处乱跑。


所以,从小学到初中,我一直是个很安静的孩子,自动屏蔽所有校园运动会,体育课遇到跑跑跳跳稍微活跃点的项目,就举手向老师请假,重复一遍“二级以上杂音”,在老师同情的目光中老老实实站在一边,看同学们玩玩闹闹。


我生活在一个特别宁静的氛围中,最大的爱好是看书、听音乐、散步与思考,发型也是齐刘海的学生头,成绩不错,非常文静,像个好学生的标本。


我过了八年好学生生活,转眼到了中考,由于发挥不理想,文化课成绩可能达不到最好的高中录取分数线,即便达标也很勉强。从我那一届开始,当地中考...

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晏礼中,《生活》月刊资深记者。他的报道对象不是社会名流,而是平民百姓,数年来,他为快递员、卖唱人、乡村医生、矿工、艾滋病人管理者、话剧演员、狱警、退伍军人、巡道工等普通人勾画出了一幅幅精准而朴素的平民肖像。


在我的电脑里面有一个word文档,名字叫做「享年」。「享年」就是享受生命年数的意思,我是在自己三十岁生日的时候,给自己建的这么一个文档。


为什么要建这么个文档呢?因为我特别想知道,有哪些我喜欢的人,在他们30岁的时候就没了。这样如果我过了三十岁,我就觉得自己比他们值了。


上网一查我发现,英国诗人雪莱三十岁的时候没了,那时候他划着小船,在湖上旅行遇上暴风雨,他就淹...

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